<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Rhaven Epiphani]]></title><description><![CDATA[Where faith and wellness inspire abundance]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2026 08:01:44 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[No Más: Hope Does Not Require Denial]]></title><description><![CDATA[I think one of the biggest pieces of fruit to come from my deconstruction journey has been this: I can no longer gaslight myself just to remain in alignment with my Christian values. And when I say that, I don’t mean that I stopped caring about truth, compassion, forgiveness, grace, redemption, or believing the best in people. I think I’m finally learning how to practice those things without lying to myself. For a long time, I thought being a good Christian meant making the truth fit inside...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/no-m%C3%A1s-hope-does-not-require-denial</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ab4dc24462042fa0a58c45c</guid><category><![CDATA[Personal Reflections ]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2026 08:18:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_629392d8d48943b29a1d642be09c9319~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_466,h_260,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[From Hoping to Holding ✨]]></title><description><![CDATA[To be in a season of “fulfillment” is incredibly humbling...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/from-hoping-to-holding</link><guid isPermaLink="false">699f5422c315cca7cad13e45</guid><category><![CDATA[Personal Reflections ]]></category><category><![CDATA[Faith Walk ]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2026 20:04:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_4986a784f2834b9c866e80afffc27d33~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_480,h_416,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Exposed ]]></title><description><![CDATA[a major key to life is cultivating a community of safe people to do life with, who will travel with you through the messy middles...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/exposed</link><guid isPermaLink="false">689e7ee96aa481be492436e8</guid><category><![CDATA[Personal Reflections ]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2025 00:39:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_bf7d08cca61342faa9f97e3b13cebc19~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_400,h_400,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Building on New Soil ]]></title><description><![CDATA[For a long time, I was building from survival... from urgency, from fear, from the need to prove something or escape something. But this...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/building-on-new-soil</link><guid isPermaLink="false">687c1fe13b808c020d54d63b</guid><category><![CDATA[Personal Reflections ]]></category><pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2025 22:49:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_445e919bad004cb0b9a579a4487942da~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_640,h_482,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Late Nights ✨ Full Hearts ]]></title><description><![CDATA[“Wait, I’m not ready for the day to end yet.”]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/late-nights-full-hearts</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68701493317698044ac06e39</guid><category><![CDATA[Personal Reflections ]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2025 19:38:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_303192cff8974859bcfb088d153f418d~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_400,h_237,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Kind of Woman are YOU? #SoulResetSunday]]></title><description><![CDATA[In a world overflowing with messages about who you “should” or “have to” be, let this be a reminder: You are fearfully and wonderfully...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/your-kind-of-woman</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6783fd1e62c6b84e165f1d8f</guid><category><![CDATA[Soul-Reset Sundays ‍♀️]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jan 2025 18:53:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_cf3218736bab47209c06c69d693c1d1b~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_480,h_480,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[New Year, New Habits! #SoulResetSunday]]></title><description><![CDATA[Happy New Year, Family! I hope you had a holiday season that was filled with fun, fellowship, food, and of course, some good ol’ rest ,...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/habits</link><guid isPermaLink="false">677c11e6dae421393b497700</guid><category><![CDATA[Soul-Reset Sundays ‍♀️]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 05 Jan 2025 18:53:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_89e329ef338b4325923e7e5f53017cc9~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_480,h_270,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Cheers to Fruitful Relationships in 2025  #SoulResetSunday]]></title><description><![CDATA[Can you believe we’re just 10 days away from 2025? As we prepare to set sail into a new year, it’s the perfect time to check in and make...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/fruitful-relationships</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67686b1e90ef48afaaba5e18</guid><category><![CDATA[Soul-Reset Sundays ‍♀️]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 22 Dec 2024 18:53:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_e4ea99e99fcf4a02871e2cb05bde4f71~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_480,h_480,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thriving Through Affirmations #SoulResetSunday]]></title><description><![CDATA[The #1 way to have a thriving week… Start each day anchoring in the truth of who you are through personal affirmations. Download this...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/affirmations</link><guid isPermaLink="false">675f6a1727406be9b1ce47d0</guid><category><![CDATA[Soul-Reset Sundays ‍♀️]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 15 Dec 2024 18:53:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_98901376f4ad4b7697e9b3ca854840b3~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_480,h_270,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Take Back Control of Your Life Before 2025! | #MindRenewalMondays ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Embrace the idea that you have authority over your life. ]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/take-back-control-of-your-life</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6757832ada44b65da106e051</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Dec 2024 00:05:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_56d441ae16f545c5b57a95223226ff2d~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who Do YOU Think You Are? | Detoxing from the Opinions of Others #SoulResetSunday]]></title><description><![CDATA[Are you ready to step off the hamster wheel of living for the thoughts, opinions, and expectations of other people? This week's Mini...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/freedom-from-opinions</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6755dabcff6334d1e2b52d57</guid><category><![CDATA[Soul-Reset Sundays ‍♀️]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 08 Dec 2024 18:53:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_03a3197fb06a46ec85d8beda2054c0d6~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_480,h_270,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Are you an enabler?  | 10 Types of People Prone to Enabling #SoulResetSunday]]></title><description><![CDATA[There's often a fine line between empowering and enabling. empower (v.) - make (someone) stronger and more confident, especially in...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/enabler-vs-empowerer</link><guid isPermaLink="false">674cac2dd536db5bba843631</guid><category><![CDATA[Soul-Reset Sundays ‍♀️]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 01 Dec 2024 18:53:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_7032c32e432c480b835e272379efd658~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_342,h_342,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Power of Liberated Women ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Being in the Presence of Liberated Women…  Gives other women the permission to be free.  There’s something so special about their essence...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/the-power-of-liberated-women</link><guid isPermaLink="false">671599d7e43ecae2b98bd5a6</guid><category><![CDATA[Artchives ✍]]></category><pubDate>Sat, 12 Oct 2024 16:55:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_1e8f443077064cfea6bd2958b4c428ae~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Building from scratch is exhilarating...]]></title><description><![CDATA[It’s forcing me to relearn what life looks like as a healed woman.]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/building-from-scratch-is-both-exhilarating-and-terrifying</link><guid isPermaLink="false">671599d7e43ecae2b98bd57e</guid><category><![CDATA[Personal Reflections ]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 16 Sep 2024 03:37:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_16f5120fe1494a05b8d911dd9e7f971f~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_675,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Give Up the Grind | Off the Hamster Wheel &#38; onto the Potter’s Wheel ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Decide you want to live differently. This is simple, but important. Make an intentional decision that you want a different life &#38; flow,...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/give-up-the-grind</link><guid isPermaLink="false">671599d6e43ecae2b98bd556</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jul 2024 16:56:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_769919e5b4574cab8083634ced765af4~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_740,h_415,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Someone Almost Ran Off with All'a My Stuff ]]></title><description><![CDATA[A poem inspired by 'Someone almost walked off wid alla my stuff.' by Ntozake Shange Someone almost ran off with all of my stuff! And I...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/someone-almost-ran-off-with-all-a-my-stuff</link><guid isPermaLink="false">671599d6e43ecae2b98bd555</guid><category><![CDATA[Personal Reflections ]]></category><category><![CDATA[Artchives ✍]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jul 2024 20:53:35 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_a3ff9f5cf2b049c78d0f7a6654ae70b8~mv2.webp/v1/fit/w_479,h_270,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Change is Good ]]></title><description><![CDATA[It’s just a new season &#38; God wants to do a new thing. ]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/change-is-good</link><guid isPermaLink="false">671599d6e43ecae2b98bd553</guid><category><![CDATA[Faith Walk ]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 04 Oct 2023 14:06:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_a1701d9edb41467490372dd8af70e887~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_498,h_280,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[ Habits that Make My Day]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today, I’m letting you in on a little of my morning and sharing  habits that make my day, along with why I do them/what they do for me.]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/daily-habits</link><guid isPermaLink="false">671599d7e43ecae2b98bd57a</guid><category><![CDATA[Wellness ]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 13:35:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_a9381fceae144ca4abfc5bf52cbfec41~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_480,h_480,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[More than Just a Month: 5 Things you Can Start Doing Today for your Mental Health]]></title><description><![CDATA[Happy Wellness Wednesday, Garden Fam! It’s been a little minute since we chatted and I definitely missed you guys! As you know, May was...]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/more-than-just-a-month</link><guid isPermaLink="false">671599d6e43ecae2b98bd521</guid><category><![CDATA[Wellness ]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2022 15:39:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_97545a7f832c48d6ae159b4e84869584~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[RIP to the 'Cool Girl' ✌]]></title><description><![CDATA[It's my birthday week, so it's about time for a good reflection! ]]></description><link>https://www.shopthecultivatedlife.com/post/rip-to-the-cool-girl</link><guid isPermaLink="false">671599d6e43ecae2b98bd520</guid><category><![CDATA[Personal Reflections ]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2022 15:00:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/daa3cd_4014c74c705c4c89be0b3523271b0cfc~mv2.gif/v1/fit/w_480,h_480,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Rhaven Holmes</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>